A letter to you: To help you through the Holidays.

Holidays can bring about many feelings, sometimes they are good and sometimes they are not so good. Holidays can be a rough time for many, so I decided to write a letter  to those that may not feel festive during the holidays with some tips to help you get through. Dear reader, It’s completely ok to not to be in the holiday spirit during this … Continue reading A letter to you: To help you through the Holidays.

That time I lived in a hotel and what I learned.

Last year, I had the rare opportunity to live in a hotel.  Not just an extended stay hotel, but a very cool Hyatt Regency in the North Dallas/Richardson Area of Texas.  So you are probably thinking, maybe she just stayed for a couple of days and didn’t actually live there.  I didn’t even think I would be there for more than a week, max 2 … Continue reading That time I lived in a hotel and what I learned.

Crushing: To approach or not to approach, that is the question…LOL

Over the past week I watched all kinds of romantic comedies, and happened to  listen to the song Crush-Yuna feat. Usher. I love this song by the way.  It really makes you think of how a crush actually makes you feel. Think about it.  When you are first crushing on a guy, the idea of your crush can make you smile, laugh, blush, or even make … Continue reading Crushing: To approach or not to approach, that is the question…LOL

The first time I realized I was black: #realizediwasblack #cnn

This morning I woke up and watched the videos on CNN.com called “The first time I realized I was black”. It allowed various celebrities, CNN news anchors, reporters, and others to talk about the first time that being black affected how people treated them. At the end of the segment it said tell your story and tag it #realizediwasblack . So here is mine. As … Continue reading The first time I realized I was black: #realizediwasblack #cnn

Miss Independent

“You are too independent”, I have heard this hundreds, possibly thousands of times.  Nope that is not an exaggeration.  My response, “Is that a bad thing???” Then it makes me think, well if everyone notes my independence, the next thing they say is, “You probably scare guys off”, Me: (sigh)  I always wonder when being independent became a death sentence lol. Independence is something that … Continue reading Miss Independent